Thursday, April 7, 2011

We Three See......Two Weeks Worth of Sights in Three Days!

As the end of the extended vacation was coming to an end, we started to realize that there were too many things left on our "to do" list to actually do.  It took some paring of the list, some abreviated visits to must-dos, and some very long days to finish up and consequently, blog time was one of the things pared off the list!

When we got close to London, we finally lit in a hotel room for more than one night!  This alone was reason to celebrate.  We decided to base all the rest of our travel out of a little town near Heathrow which would allow us to stop schlepping bags in and out of hotel rooms.  Thank goodness for priceline, as we got a great room for a good price in an area that is known for its exorbinant hotel rooms.  While we really liked the idea of staying in a little pub/inn, at this point in the trip a few nights at the Crown Plaza sounded just perfect!

After nixing the southern part of Wales from our trip, we still had Stonehenge, Brighton Beach and Castle, Winsor Castle, Hampton Court and all of London proper left.  That was quite a bit to fit into three days, but we decided to give it a go.

Stonehenge was something Cait really wanted to see.  I'm awfully glad she did.  It is one of the mysteries of the history of man that will probably never be solved.  I'd seen Stonehenge in photos and on tv, but until you actually stand near the giant stones (that actually come from more than 400 kilometers away) and realize that they were somehow not only moved there over 1500 years ago, but also stood erect.....well, its just mind boggling.  The big stones weigh over 50 tons and yet somehow a civilization that the ability to dig them up, transport them and set them on end in exact pattern.  Some of the stones have worn away from the elements, some where chipped away at by souvenir takers, but still, as you walk around them, you can't help but wonder how they got there....and possibly more importantly, why.

One of the funniest things we found at Stonehenge was a man from Alabama.  He was hard to miss with his Bama hat and drawl, and after he heard us talk, he considered us kindred spirits!  He followed Cait and I around Stonehenge chatting up a storm, telling us about his travels with his wife and her two sisters.  Every year they go on a big vacation, and because he is the only husband around....it is him and these three ladies going all over the world.  He talked about his sons, food, the "sisters", Scotland, Australia, the weather, the bus they were riding on, the hotel they were staying at, his recent trip to San Antonio, the newspaper in Tampa one of his sons works for, and OF COURSE, football!  As a matter of fact, he talked so much, Cait and I couldn't get a word in edgewise.....which is quite a feat!  Mom, on the other hand, had fallen back and she and the "Bama" wife were talking as if they were old friends...go figure!  After so many days of people who spoke different languages or the same language with strange accents, it was nice to hear a y'all and a ma'am for a change.  Last we saw him, he was off to find a couple who's baby had on a UT hat that we told him about.....I think he was going to probably try to convert the baby and teach him to "Roll Tide"!

After Stonehenge, we headed down to Brighton Beach.  We had gotten up pretty early and were putting in a lot of mileage, even by our standards, and for the first time on the road trip....I was worried about driving.  I got really tired in the afternoon sun and the drive seemed much longer than the 2 hours it actually took us to get there.  After a quick look at Brighton Castle (which, incidentally looked like the Taj Mahal instead of a proper British castle), we drove to the beach where I dropped Cait and Mom off for a stroll on the beach and to collect some stones for Alexa and I took myself a little power nap.  Thank goodness for the ability to power nap!  The weather was cold and damp and not really beach weather anyway, so all I missed were the gorgeous stones that form the beach there.  Because Alexa is such a rock collector, Mom and Cait filled their pockets will all sorts of stones from the beach to bring home to her and by the time they got back to the car I was revived enough to finish the day.

Cait's favorite time in British History is the Tudor period and the reign of Henry  VIII.  We new that a lot of the next few days were going to be filled with trips to the Castles where Henry and/or his wives lived, and luckily near Brighton Beach was the home of Ann of Cleves (one of Henry's wives who actually survived the marraige to him and got out of it with her head still in tact.  We drove over to see it and there was a hand written sign on the entrance...."closed due to staff sickness".  While that was  a little odd, I guess we were glad that we weren't subjected to the germs and we spent a half hour peeking in the windows of a house built in the 1500s. 

After a great dinner and good nights sleep, we were up early to head out to Hampton Court and Windsor Castle.  This was one of the days that Cait had most been looking forward to in the UK. 

Hampton Court was the main home of Henry VIII.  It is remarkably well preserved, with original tapestries on the walls and many of the floors original as well.  They happened to be filming a movie there at the time, which while making it sort of a pain to get around, did liven the place up, as there were people in costume and props around that made the castle look like an actual working castle.  While I learned a lot from Cait about Henry and his wives, and the information that they give you at the castle is very informative.....maybe the most interesting part was a tour of the "privy".  I'm not sure how civilization survived such terrible hygeine conditions....thank goodness for modern plumbing!  The passages were dark and damp, and as they talked about the smells from the sewage and the rotting meat after the King had been there for several weeks, you really imagine how unbearable it could become.  No wonder they migrated from castle to castle so often, giving each one a break and chance to air out. We spent all morning and into the afternoon at Hampton and it was actually more than we, well at least I, had anticipated it being.

Windsor Castle was next...and since it was a working castle where the current Queen spends most of her time, we weren't sure how much of it was going to be open and we expected a sort of modern Castle.  Wrong again.  Windsor was built in the early 1000s....and while obviously has been updated, it still has the look of an old castle.  If I were Queen, I would spend all of my time there as well, because you couldn't help but feel "royal" living there.  The Queen was there the day we were there and they were setting up for a big banquet, which made our visit more interesting.  All of the tables in the banquet hall were being set, with a ruler being used to measure the exact placement of all of the table settings.  That's not exactly how I do it at home....but I just might have to get myself a table ruler! 

The Chapel on the castle grounds was maybe the most intesting part, with generations of royals entombed in the chapel.  Some had regular crypt like tombs, but some were buried in vaults that were topped with carvings of their bodies lying in state.  Really weird and creepy.  Henry VIII, historically one of the most egocentric rulers of that time, is buried under the floor in a pretty non-desript grave, despite his pre-death instructions for a big monument that included a marble horse......guess his kids didn't get the memo! 

We spent as much time as possible in the castle and were some of the last few people to leave.  Considering the security at museums, government buildings, and houses of government officials here in the states, it was surprising how accessible this castle, as well as all of the other's we had seen, are to the general public.  The one thing we noticed at both of the stops on this day were the large number of school aged children who were touring the sights.  They seemed to be really interested in the history and pretty well behaved..........that would change the next day!!!

Our last day in the UK was going to prove to be the most exhausting there.  We had decided that rather than fight the London traffic, I would drive us to the train station and we would take the "tube" into the city, where we planned on seeing London Tower, Buckingham Palace, Westminster Abbey, Piccadilly Circus, the Houses of Parliament, and a show in the Theatre district.  Unbelieveably, we managed to see all of that, threw in a great pub dinner and pre-show desert, and it made for a highly successful, though at times trying, day.

We started with the Tower of London, because Mom told us that they lines to see the Crowned Jewels become ridiculous late in the day.  Aside from the jewels, Cait was interested in the history of the imprisonment and execution of two of Henry's wifes and many high ranking royals during the Tudor period.  This might have been our first and only real disappointment of the trip.  The information at the Tower was sparce, we couldn't get in to see the tombs of Ann Bolynn and Catherine Howard (Henry's wives who were beheaded), many of the Crown Jewels were not out for display and there were school kids everywhere.  Unlike the day before, many of these kids were not so well behaved.  As a matter of fact, one particurally bad class seemed to keep showing up where we were, and by the time we were in the "Bloody Tower" learning about the murder of two young princes by their uncle, I was on my last nerve.  There were stations throughout the tower where you could cast your opinion on a topic by pressing a series of buttons.  They are designed to be easy to use and to keep crowds moving.  Well, while trying to read about this uncle to had his nephews smothered there was a loud, repetitive click click click click click click in the room.  It was one of the students from the class.  His teacher was just standing and watching him...click click click click click.  Everyone else in the room, being polite Brits, were, while muttering to each other, not confronting the child as well.  I looked his direction and sort of shook my head.  He ignored me....click click click click click. I sort of waved my hand in a gesture for him to stop.  He still ignored me....click click click click click....over and over, banging on the voting button.  Finally, I had had it, stared right at the little bugger and loudly (okay, maybe screamingly) said "STOP THAT NOW"!!!!  He froze, eyes got big, and he rushed out of the room to find his teacher who had slithered away.  I thought I might be in a bit of a jam with the polite Britsh crowd, but when I turned back at them, they were actually smiling in approval!

The little brat child did come back in, armed with his friends, but not a teacher.  He sort of smirked at me, while his friends began banging on the buttons.  Funny how positioning myself between them and the buttons and staring them down discouraged any further bad behavior and pretty soon the whole gang of little hoodlums ran off to bug someone else.  Not only could I not believe how badly this class behaved, I couldn't believe how oblivious their teacher was to their disruptive behavior.  Thank goodness for most of the teachers I know here, who not only care more about their students than that, but also care more about people in general.

While we were disapointed in many of the things at the tower, there were still parts that we loved.  You could actually go into the areas where the prisoners were held, walking through the small passages, read the carvings in the walls that the prisoners had made.  After all the stories that Cait had told us about this period of time, about the people who were persecuted and held prisoner there, it all really came to life and you could imagine what it might be like being a 17 year old girl who fell from grace and went from being Queen to being executed in days time. 

After the tower, we got back on the tube and then walked our way around the center of the city, seeing all the sights we wanted to see, getting great half priced seats to see Billy Elliott and hopping on a double decker bus to spend the extra hour or so we had before the show, just checking out the city.  Definitely the highlight of the night was the show.  The kids who starred in it were adorable and amazingly talented, the theatre was old and gorgeous and our seats were perfect.  It was the perfect ending to a great trip.  Even the sort of creepy Italian man on the tube on the way home,  hitting on Cait and trying to charm mom couldn't spoil that ending!

After finally getting to bed at 2:30 in the morning, we woke up early to get Cait on her flight home and then Mom and I went to return the car.  Incidentally....the car was returned no worse for the wear from this US driver, even though the learner permits that Cait has stuck in the back windows created a bit of a stir, as apparently you aren't supposed to have them unless you really don't have a license.  Oh well, no harm no foul....and perhaps the fair warning made people be a little more cautious around me. 

It will be interesting to see how my thoughts about this trip evolve over the next week or so, as I get home and rested and back into a more normal routine.  But I feel pretty safe in saying that this was an experience that will never be forgotten......and I feel like one of the luckiest people in the world to have gotten to share it with Mom and Cait

Sunday, April 3, 2011

We Three See........ROUND-ABOUTS

I will catch up on on further adventures tomorrow....as I'm sure our castle viewing treks are becoming tiresome to hear about.   Besides, today there is something more important to talk about.  My conquering of the British round-about.

You see, Brits don't really have intersections, at least not intersections like we have.  No redlights, waiting your turn and the such.  Every time roads intersect, whether it be 3, 4 or 7....they put what is called a roundabout.

In the US we call these traffic circles and they are often confusing because they are so rare.  Here, they are confusing, because they are EVERYWHERE! 

So, we approach the roundabouts from a street...and the first strange thing for me to remember is that I have to enter it going left.  The entering traffic has to give-way (yield) to the cars already in the circle.

I know this seems like a simple thing....enter the circle, yielding to traffic as you enter, and drive round until your exit.  Well......not so much.

Picture this......me, evidentally with legs much longer than the normal European driver since the Fauxhall (European car) that we've rented forces me to sit much closer up under the wheel than I would like.  So me...legs all up in the steering wheel....trying to remember to enter and go LEFT!  And in the background, Cait and Mom are both reminding me of the same, while sometimes adding little tidbits like "Mom, your drifting!"  or "Bev, don't forget to yield".  So basically, every interesection there is chattering and coaching going on like crazy.

Add to that, the sound of the horns when I fail to remember, to hear, or to execute either the yielding, the entering and going left or both!  So now you have chattering and coaching, honking, and usually some bad pop music from the radio.  Wait....seems like I'm forgetting something.  Oh yeah, "Sean", the voice of our navigator who speaks in such a heavy Irish accent that he is sometimes difficult to understand.

So......a little tiny car, legs all up under the wheel, left handed shifting, trying to remember not only to keep driving on the lefthand side, but to rotate left in the roundabout, Cait reminding me at 100 words a minute about yielding and where to exit, Mom coaching from the back in her "mom voice", Sean telling me to "veer left" and go about to the 3rd exit, angry red-face Brit shaking one hand at me while honking with the other, two "learning driver" signs in the back window of the car, radio playing Frankie goes to Hollywood.......throw in someone trying to photograph a sign or a sight, snacking on something odd and yummy, or us laughing about something we have just seen or heard......and you have just imagined the scene we go through 50 or 60 times a day.

This morning, we went through the process.....with all those things above.....except this particular time no one honked.

"Bev, I think you really have the hang of these round-abouts."

Thanks Mom!

Saturday, April 2, 2011

We Three See......A castle guard, a buried Bard and Pub food to die for

What a great night's sleep....and a late morning for us.  Actually a much needed perfect start to the day, since we all felt especially rested. 

We had decided to head south and try to curb our castle hunting a bit.  We were on a mission to get to Stratford-upon-Avon early enough to see Romeo and Juliet by the Royal Shakespeare Company.  We ya know what they say about best laid plans......

Leaving Glascow we immediately were driving through some of the prettiest country yet.  While talking about the rolling hills and the strange plants and trees we were seeing, someone noticed a "castle sign".  Well, maybe just one more.  So, quick as that, we were off the motorway and cruising through lamb country again on tiny little country roads...finally  running across some unfenced land with sheep and lambs on the roads....strangely enough, just what we had been wanting to see!  We drove through the grazing fields and hills, then through a forest...and finally over a beautiful little river we saw the directions to the castle we were in search of, and as we drove onto the property and up towards the gardens, we were so glad we had ventured off path. 

This was one of the prettiest castles we had seen, and the best part, there was a Duke still living there.  When we got to the guard house, the guard asked us what we were there for....hmmm....since I didn't think they would believe we were there for tea, we said we had just wandered off course and needed to turn around.  We took long enough to snap some great photos as we were turning around in the castle driveway (if they call it a drive way) and then headed back to find our way back onto the motorway. Though it was a two hour diversion, it was one of the best little side trips we took.

Just before we got back to the main road, we went through a little town and decided this might be a great time to try some pub food.  GOOD CHOICE.  We got a steak and ale pie and of course, a fish and chips and a cheeseburger.  For desert we shared the most decadent "sticky toffee pudding with custard sauce", which we had no idea what it was going to be, but will now never forget how good it was.  The food was incredible, the pub was right out of a book on "the real Scotland" and the bartender gave us two big cups of ice to go!!! (Ice is such a treat for us even here, that it might have even outshined the great food). 

Even with our detour, we still got to Stratford in plenty of time to see the show.....but unfortunately they were sold out.  Still, the little city is picturesque and quaint....and we got to grave yard search a bit while heading to the church where William Shakespeare is buried.  There is just something incredibly interesting about a cemetary with grave stones from the 1600s!  I know, I know...still not a normal vacation....but we will get to London soon, and then I'm sure do some more normal things!

For the most part, we met the nicest, most interesting people on this adventure.  It just seems like people go out of their way to help us or talk to us.  Its so nice to run into that over and over.  Well, tonight ended with an encounter at the hotel that was just the opposite of what we've been experiencing.  The guy at the front desk.....well, to say he tested my nerves is an understatement.  I even, at one point, asked him if there was a camera someplace because it was like a character actor was playing a bad British hotel clerk and I was being punked.  I looked at Cait and Mom at one point, both looked like they were waiting for a bomb to drop.  Later, Mom said she couldn't believe how calm I was being and was afraid at any minute I might go right across the counter and grab him by his collar.  I was trying really hard not to be the "ugly American"....and I think I somewhat succeeded......but the whole situation was just proof that no matter where you are, there are just some people who should not be doing the job they are doing.  Well, that and proof that some people are just flat dumber than a post.

I know I've said this over and over again.....but I can't stress enough.....as I listen to the sounds of Cait and Mom sleeping and reflect on all the things we are seeing, learning, laughing about....I know just how blessed I am.  Tomorrow....we actually go INSIDE castles.  Castles that we are supposed to be at!  We don't even have to pretend to be lost!

Friday, April 1, 2011

We Three See.......Castles, Lambs, and Our Lives Flash Before Our Eyes!

I know I said we were going to have a more normal vacation once we got to the UK....but that wasn't exactly correct.  While great sheets, real beds and good food have certainly been in our itinerary...the rest of the past couple days  has been anything but ordinary.

We left north of London early Thursday morning....all snug and happy in our little "left handed" car.  Actually the driving part was going pretty well.  I even managed to figure out how to set the emergency brake!  Of course, the first time we had to put gas in, it took us about 15 minutes and the assistance of two different guys who were getting gas at the same time, to figure out how to open the gas tank.  We felt pretty stupid to be "baffled" by something so simple.  Note to car rental agents....INCLUDE THE OWNER'S MANUALS! 

Our goal was to head north about 3 hours on the "motorway".....getting off to see York Minster Cathedral, which was to be the start of a three day "castle hunting" expedition.  Oh....and the second part of our goal was to figure out where exactly in the UK has the best fish and chips!  We've put a big dent in both of those.

The motorway was a breeze.  Its hard to even consider driving the wrong way on a divided highway and we made it to York in less time than we expected.  There we went to see York Minster (a magnificient Gothic cathedral) and a castle just outside of the town.  From there, we pretty much shot from the hip.  Armed with a list of the best castles in the UK that we got from the internet and an atlas, we've wound our way up the northwestern coast of England, into Scotland, zig-zagging our way across the lower portion of Scotland, and now are headed back down into England tomorrow.

Our search for castles have taken us into small little medieval walled villages, down little dirt roads and even into a few "no private vehicles allowed" areas.  We are still a bit early in the season and were finding many of the castles closed and some we found are not ever open to the public.  The adventure of finding them has been as fun as any other part of the trip!  I'm not sure why we are so interested in the castles.....perhaps we fancy ourselves princesses of sorts.....or maybe we are finding a future home for our real little princess Alexa.....or it could be we've seen too many romantic comedies and just like the idea of traipsing around small roads in the UK.  Regardless of why, we have seen some spectacular castles, in all stages of repair and ruin, and still on the agenda for tomorrow are the Welsh castles.

Doing a tour like this with Cait is amazing.  She is such a British history buff and great story teller than she can fill us in on who lived in almost every castle and weave wonderful tales about what each family's part in history was.  We learned about everyone from the Roman leaders who built Hadrian's wall across northern England to keep the Barbarians out in the days of the Roman Empire, to William Wallace and Mary Queen of Scots, to the bits and pieces of history that have been salvaged from the dark ages as we looked at some of the castles that are little more than stacks of stone left standing on a cliff overlooking the North Sea.

In between our "castle spotting" we've sung countless songs, listened to stories, both old and new, and have seen literally thousands of sheep.  Its lambing season in the UK and the fields are filled with flocks of sheep, all the ewes followed by their adorable little lamb babies.  Funny thing about sheep in the UK, they don't bob their tales, so all of them, adult and newborns, have long tails!  If Cait had her way we would spend a lot more time climbing fences and chasing after the baby lambs. 

We are truly seeing some amazing country and some sights that are something that we never imagined seeing.  When we stop someplace, we always seem to create a little bit of a stir, as the places we are going and the people we are running in to are not the sorts of places where American tourists normally go.  One of the best treats was getting to meet Robert Watts....a precocious 5 year old, who wants to be a "proper bus driver" and completely charmed us as he practiced the songs that he is performing at a Mother's Day program at his school.  (In the UK Mother's day is this Sunday)  He chattered away at us, bright and cute and filled with personality. 


We did have a bit of a "fright" today.  While shifting left handed has gotten to be more and more natural, I got us into a bit of a predicament today.  We were leaving one of the small little farm roads we had been on, turning back onto a larger rural road.  I was going to have to make a right turn, meaning I was going to have to cross oncoming traffic.  Sitting on a hill, I started out and was in 3rd instead of 1st....and the car died.  Normally, even if I couldn't go ahead and start in 3rd by heavy clutching, I would simply start the car and go on.  This time, as the car died, I saw a lorrie (18 wheeler) coming at us.  When I looked in my rear view, another car had pulled up behind me, leaving me no room to back up.  I was only out about 4 feet into the road, leaving the truck plenty of room to go around.....so I was hesistant to try to re-start and pull forward, thinking that if the truck veered to the other lane to go around me, my pulling forward could put us further in harm's way.  Well, the truck didn't seem to want to leave his lane.  He just kept coming right at us.  I was sitting and watching.....begging him to change lanes.....Cait hid behind the atlas, as if could protect her from the impact with the 18 wheeler.....and Mom just sat and stared, not wanting to miss anything, not even us being hit by a big truck.  Finally, at what seemed like the very last minute, the truck swerved, barely missing the front of our car, and we were able to pull out. 

Honestly, I was pretty shaken by that.....and while we kept going, I was working hard at trying to keep my composure and calm.  Even Mom and Cait were surprisingly quiet  for a bit.  Then, just as we started to get back to normal, we noticed a truck ahead of us driving very erratically.  We dropped back a bit, as he kept veering into oncoming traffic and thought that if he got hit, we didn't want to be too close to him.  After following him for about 5 minutes, watching him run several vehicles into the shoulder as he veered into their lane, he finally crossed over the opposite lane completely, hitting a road sign and fishtailing for about 200 yards before he came to a stop.  I'm not sure if he was sleeping or drunk....and though Cait wanted to stick around and see what happened with him....we drove on, thankful that we had avoided two potentially vacation ruining incidents.

Fish and Chips.......we become quite the experts on them!  3 days in a row that is what we have eaten and really I anticipate eating it many more times while we are here.  The fish is huge chunks of either cod or haddock, so mild and sweet each and every time we've had it.  And the chips....big, and thick, but still perfectly done.  We've even learned to really appreciate the vinegar on both the fish and the chips.  Mom and I are both in heaven, as seafood is our favorite food, and Cait is being a great sport about our obsession with this dish.  Can't wait to report on eactly where we find the best fish and chips while we are here, but so far, I think that the Wetherby Whaler just outside of York is leading the way!  We've yet to try a street vendor, but I think tomorrow might be the day for that.

Tomorrow, after heading into Wales, we are going to Stratford upon Avon and hoping to see a show there.  Then its off to Hampton court, Brighton Beach.....and finishing up in London. 

Well, as I'm writing this blog Cait is perusing British TV.  She is watching a show called "Embarrassing Body Problems"  This is just unbelievable.  Not only are the embarassing problems, really REALLY embarassing....but what they are showing on network tv is shocking.  The first girl has a particularly hairy "backside"...and we were more than a bit taken aback that they showed it.  Then......the next girl has thrush as a result of a yeast infection....AND THEY SHOWED THAT!!!!!  Now, a man has an enlarged testicle.....a very old man....and finally Cait has changed the channel, but not before we were priviledged to see that testicle on our big screen tv!!!!  And I thought American reality tv had gone too far.  Please, please, don't let this trend move into the states.

Well, we're off early in the morning, so this is a short one.  Keep your fingers crossed that we continue to have good luck with my driving and that we can charm our way out of any spots we get into by making our way into places where we aren't really supposed to be.

Wednesday, March 30, 2011

We Three See.......Life from the OTHER SIDE of a car!

A great night's sleep did us all well and we were up and headed to the airport out of Santiago by 7 this morning!  Well, we thought we all were back on track after a good night's sleep, but once we got to the airport we found that one of us.....NANA....might not have been as sharp as usual.

In an attempt to consolidate bags and manipulate all of the stuff we've acquired onto  our Ryan Air flight while incurring as few costs as possible, Mom was in charge of packing two small duffles we bought to use as multi purpose carryon bags.  She was carrying one on....Cait the other.  Well, it was quite obvious as we passed through the security point at the airport that something was not right with our bags.  Cait, more than a little irritated at the stir her bag was creating, thought that we had packed something liquid in with her stuff.  Not quite so simple as that.

We have bought an assortment of trinkets and interesting items for people we love from different spots.  Mom put all those into Cait's bag.  What she didn't consider was that one of the items that Cait bought was an 8 inch Moroccan dagger!  Its amazing what a stir a hooked dagger causes in an international airport.  As soon as I realized what was happening, I claimed the bag as mine.  At the same time, Cait was plaintively explaining that her grandmother had made the mistake...after all how could someone be upset with a grandmother.  When there were four armed policemen huddled discussing the bag, I thought for just a moment that my stay in Santiago might be longer than I expected!  I handed Mom and Cait all of my other stuff, their passports, my check-on bag...and told them to go on.  All we needed was all three of us in trouble!

Well, they decided that it was, after all, a simple mistake.....so while they weren't going to make it into a bigger deal than it was, they were not, of course, going to let me take it with me.  Since it was a gift for someone from Cait, I knew it was important that it not get left behind.  After some pleading, some really bad spanish (again) and finally a local policeman who spoke a little english coming to my aid, they decided that they would allow me to add it to my checked bag.  Possibly the funniest thing of all was when the Ryan Air staff person wouldn't call to have my bag brought out front again, the security officers took me back to the baggage loading area, point out my bag and stick the dagger in it!  International incident averted and we were on our way with minutes to spare!

However, international incidents may still be forthcoming.  You see, we have decided our road trip in Spain went so well, we are going to do the same thing here in the UK.  Its a lovely country, and after all, all the road signs are in english.  One big problem.....well, three problems so far.......they drive on the wrong side of the road, I have to shift with my left hand, and it took me 10 minutes to find the emergency brake on the vehicle they gave me!

Actually, its not been as hard as I thought it would be.  I sort of get in line and just remember to follow the car in front of me...that keeps me on the right side of the road.  Shifting is becoming more natural.  I've decided that parking brakes are overrated (because while a flashing light on the dashboard told me how to disengage the parking brake after I tried to drive with it engaged multiple time, there is no light to tell me how to re-engage it!)  Problems solved.  We hope that they are solved.....Cait, in anticipation of future difficulties found a sticker to attach to the car window that identifies me as a "Learning Driver".  Maybe people will steer clear of me! 

Today we finished recuperating from our walk, did our laundry, ate some incredible fish and chips and are tucked in ready to hit the road in the morning on a three day road trip up to Scotland.  Wish us well, and if you have friends or family in the UK, you might consider warning them for a redhead who just might be driving on the wrong side of the road, or a black Fauxhall that just might be rolling down a hill because the parking brake wasn't engaged!

Tuesday, March 29, 2011

We Three See.......just how strong we are.......

Continuing from the previous blog....days 4-6 of our Camino De Santiago......

Day 4 - 24 kilometers

The first sound we heard when we woke was rain.  UGH!  But at least we were starting with dry, not poopy smelling, clothes. 

Our great discovery of the day was BREAKFAST.  Bacon and Eggs.  Albeit bacon greatly undercooked by our standards.....the eggs were so amazingly terrific that they made up for it.  Cait hadn't had breakfast for 2.5 months and Mom and I since we had gotten to Spain, so we were all happy to find out that even if eggs weren't on the menu, most little places (if you could find them open in the mornings) would be happy to make you huevos frito.  We had a glorious start to the day.

That quickly changed.  It rained.....and rained....and rained.  Soon our feet were soaked, our clothes were soaked....we were wet and cold.  Mostly it was a slow steady rain, but at times driving rain so hard we had to wear our sun glasses to keep the rain out of our faces.  We had no choice but to go on. 

Wet feet made the going tougher.  Our feet began to slip in our shoes and that made our feet sore.  Sometime after mid day, we got to a small town and bought Cait and I walking sticks.  This helped a lot as the roads and trails had become so slippery that keeping upright was becoming more and more difficult of us.....especially me, for those of you who know me well!!!  I only fell once on the trip....well, twice if you count the time I was trying to go to the bathroom on a steep hill...but that is a better story told in person!.  The one fall I had was on a hill, and I managed to catch myself after only one roll.  I consider that a complete success!

Besides the stop for eggs and bacon  and the stop for the sticks....we trudged on.  Our pace became pretty slow, but we did manage to pass the German shirt stealers when they took refuge in a bus stop during a particularly bad rain storm.

As the day started coming to an end we found an aubergue.  However, we were a few kilometers short of our goal for the day, so Cait and Mom thought we should move on.  I relunctantly agreed......

We walked.....and looked for a place to stay....and walked....and walked....  Soon we had not only met our goal, but gone past it!  We were miserable.  So tired and cold and wet.  No place to stay in sight, we just kept on walking.  Finally we saw a little village at the bottom of a really steep hill, about a kilometer away.  We were hopeful that there would be someplace to stay there, because the only way out of the village was up an equally steep hill on the other side.  Mom even commented that there better be someplace to stay there, because she could never make it up that other hill.  She was wrong.

There was no place to stay....and she made it up the next hill....and the next.  We went on for nearly 4 kilometers more than we planned, when we got to a highway.  Nothing seemed near...and we were becoming pretty worried about what we were going to do....when we followed the highway around a corner and there was a Pension.....A REAL HOTEL!!!!!!  With beds....and sheets...and a bathtub!!!  We were like school girls.  We ran into the room, jumped into the beds and giggled.  We each took about a 30 minute bath and Cait and I watched MTV reruns until  I fell asleep mumbling something about the sheets....I've never been so happy to sleep on such low thread count sheets! 

This had been a really tough day...with a really happy ending.  We just new this would be our hardest day yet.

Day five - 18 kilometers

When we went down to check out of the hotel (after sleeping in until 9!! we made our second great purchase of the walk.  Real ponchos!!!!!  I spied them in a case near the front and we each got one.  Thank goodness!  Today was going to be our rainiest day yet!

At breakfast, we saw a group of Asian people.....they were chattering happily, but didn't speak to us.  We would also meet the first of whom we refer to  as "a cheater".  A British woman was at the hotel waiting for a cab to take her down the road a bit to start her walk.  The cab was then going to take her luggage on to her next hotel.  She was doing bits and pieces of the walk. 

Later that day we would run into two Irish men doing something similar.  They walked a bit every day, then called a cab to come find them and take them back to their rented car.  They then would drive to the next easy walk and walk a bit more the next day.  When we first found out what they were doing we were almost resentful, but after mulling it over the next few days, we decided we shouldn't be so judgemental.  We weren't sure what their circumstances were, healthwise or otherwise, and they might not be as fortunate as we were to be able to make this great trip.  Still.....it was tough to see them along the trip looking fresh and rested as we plodded along!

Every day, we just kept thinking that the road would get easier soon.  We were wrong.  Day five was proving to be one of the toughest.  We stopped for a bite to eat at a little spot and had two great treats.

First, the asian group we had seen earlier in the morning was there finishing up their tea.  We found they were from Japan and expressed our sorrow and prayers for their country.  They were so happy to meet us and to practice their english.  They were so cute....all between 50 and 70, except for their young guide.  They took photos with us and laughed and even gave Cait a massage because she was carrying the big pack.  They stayed much longer than they had planned, talking to us...hugging us....and when we gave them each one of the crosses that we had brought to share, they were thrilled.  We could not have made them any happier and they could not have made our day any better!

After they left the man running the little cafe asked where we were from.  When we told him Texas, he excitedly told us that the Bush girls had stopped there at his place when they did the Camino.  He said they bought lots of chocolate and one security guard came in with them while the others stayed outside.  We laughed at how miserable the secret service guys must have been going on this walk!  Still it was an interesting side story for our day.

That night we were right back on course, thanks to our long day the day before....and stopped at what we thought was a very nice aubergue.  It was.....sort of.  It was nice...but filled with 50 fifteen year old Spanish kids!!!! They laughed and talked until the wee hours of the morning....though we were so tired it only bothered us occasionally.  Mostly we just snoozed away.

We had decided to try to get an early start the next day and maybe we could finish enough to make the pilgrim's Mass in Santiago the next day at noon.  We were......again.....wrong.

Day 6 - 18 Kilometers

We got up at 6....only to find it was completely dark.  Even after a leisurely breakfast, the skies were so dark at 7:45 that we couldn't really see the path.  But we decided to go on anyway.  This particular part of the journey was through a forested area....so it was sort of creepy...but added another dimension to our trip.

We started out great.  Excited it was our last day...and as always, I was sure this day was going to be mostly down hill.  Once again...I was wrong.

The first 5 kilometers flew by.  Then the rain started again.  And the road became tough.  We went by the airport....we knew we were close...but not sure how far out of town we still were.  At 13.5 we saw a marker......the sort of marker that had be along the road regularly since the onset.  Almost every half of a kilometer there had been one.

We walked...and climbed....and walked.  The wind picked up and was blowing the rain at us as it had a couple of days earlier.  We worried that we were off the path....we hadn't seen  a marker for several hours.  Then....on a fence....there were literally thousands of hand made crosses.....we knew we were going the right way.

Every day seemed hard, but for some reason today seemed hardest.  Our feet hurt...our pace had slowed.....we hadn't seen the German "hares" since the evening before...as a matter of fact we weren't seeing anyone else.  We just kept walking.  Because we were nearing Santiago, the path was now pavement....hurting our feet even more.  Again we went a hour or more with now sign.  Cait decided there weren't markers at this point because you had to move forward on sheer faith.  We think she might have been right. 

Everytime we became discouraged we would see something to move us forward.  Another handmade cross....a glimpse of the city on the horizon.....a woman continueing the walk in one walking shoe and one bloody sock where the blisters on her toes prohibited her from wearing both shoes.....all of these things kept us going.

Finally....after 6 days..... 
  • 42 hours of walking
  • 112 official kilometers
  • 29 roadside potty stops (3 of which were mine and all the others belonging to an unnamed person)
  • 6 German, 8 Japanese, 2 Mallorcan, 1 French, 2 Irish, 1 Brit, Countless Spanish and some unidentified other travellers
  • 2 herds of cattle
  • 1 sleepless night
  • thousands of laughs
  • a few tears
and an experience of a lifetime....we reached the Cathedral ......Catedral de Santiago Compostella....one of the most gorgeous sites I have ever seen.  We proudly received our certificates of completion, spent some quiet time in the cathedral, soaking in everything we had seen and done....and came back to our wonderful little hotel to rest.

I learned so much on this trip...about history, about Spain, about myself.  I was reminded how strong my Mother is.  While she amazed everyone we met, Cait and I never doubted her.  I was shown something about Cait I never knew.  She was kind and helpful and loving.....soaking up this very special time with her Grandmother.  She took the burden of the heavy load and never once second guessed her decision or whined about it.  The trip was almost perfect......although Alexa was with us often in our thoughts and conversations, we all wished she had been old enough to come with us.  That would have been the icing on the cake.  Still.....Cait has promised to bring her sometime...and share with her the legacy that her Grandmother has left.

Now.....as the bagpiper is again playing on the streets below...and the rain is still coming down....I'm in bed.  Mom is sleeping beisde me, Cait reading across the room......and I know I am blessed.

We Three See.....That P 90 X is for Wussies!

We are back in Santiago.....6 days and 120ish kilometers later.  Looking back, I would say that this was one of the most difficult things I've ever done and appropriately one of the most rewarding.  I know many people will look at how we just spent 6 days and think that is not at all their idea of a vacation.  Believe me, its not really mine either! Believe me, no one loves a pina colada next to a nice pool more than me.   However, that being said, I don't think I will ever have 6 days represent such a priceless experience as I just shared with Mom and Cait.  Even though I speak for them often in this blog, this particular post is my voice, my experience, my feelings.  What a great gift these 6 days have been.

Mom and I began "training" for this pilgrimage months ago.  Mom would take her backpack with her to the gym and walk on the treadmill.  We spent a lot of hours walking the roads around home...even having Dad take us and drop us off, so that we could make our way home.....all in preparation for this trip.  It is a GRAND understatement to say that we were not prepared.  Had we known what to expect we might not have attempted it....and yet knowing how we feel now, we certainly wouldn't have passed it up.

I know this is going to be a long post.....but keep in mind as you are growing tired reading it, just how tired we were living it!!!!

Day One - Train trip to Sarria and 14 Kilometer walk.

Our day got off to a rocky start, as we had given ourselves plenty of time and arrived at the train station 30 minutes early.  However, since Spain's version of daylight saving's time had started, we were actually 30 minutes late and missed our train. The next train would not arrive early enough for us to get started on our walk and we thought we probably needed the half day in order to finish in the time we had allotted, so I went out, flagged down a cab, and in my very bad spanish, talked him into taking us to meet our train at the next connection.  He, of course, turned off his meter and drove us about 40 minutes, where we just caught the connecting train that would take us to Sarria, where we would start our walk.  We were back on course.

Sarria is a moderate sized little city, built on a series of small hills.  Unfortunately, when you get off the train, there are no clear directions as to how to begin the pilgrimage.  We floudered around for a bit, then finally found a woman who directed us to the convent at the top of the highest peak, where we needed to go to get our "pilgrim's credentials" and officially start our walk.  This not only added a few kilometers to our walk, but added several hills, which though didn't seem like such a big deal at the time, would later prove to be very important.

The pilgrim's credentials were passports of sorts, that require stamps from places you stay, eat or visit along the route in order to prove to the record keepers at the end of the walk that you completed all of the legs of the journey.  Our first stamp was from the convent in Sarria....and we were off! 

We had filled Caitlin's good backpack with all of her and my things....but Mom was insisting on carrying her own weight, so she had a school style backpack that she was carrying.  Cait and I planned on trading the big pack every hour or so and we had some snacks in a third small little pack. 

Things started pretty much like we expected....a pretty little hike down alongside a river.  Passing the markers that showed us the way, we, like the travelers before us, dropped off rocks at each marker.  These rocks were representative of the worries that we were leaving along the way, so that we would arrive at our destination with a clean spirit. 

Very quickly, we figured out that maybe the walk wasn't going to be exactly what we had thought it was going to be.  The nice riverside path turned into a goat path......rocky and hilly....up and down.  When we did see a village or a house, there seemed to be only people who lived completely self sufficiently....no markets or stores. 

We had read that there were some hotels along the way, but because we were doing the walk before the "season" actually started, we thought they might be few and far between.  However, we knew that there would also be pilgrim's refuges called aubergues, where we could get a bunk for the night.  Since we were not carrying sleeping bags, we had decided to try to make it to the hotels!  Well, after seeing what the route was going to be, it became obvious that the hotel thing was NOT going to happen the first night.

About an hour into our walk, Mom picked up a stick to help her make it over some of the rocky places and through some of the water crossings.  Well, the stick she chose was a little short...and as we got to the end of the day I noticed she was listing badly to the right.  Just as we started to get worried that we might not even find an open aubergue as soon as we needed, we rounded a corner and there was a tiny little building...actually centuries old...and it had some wonderful smells coming from it.  We were getting cold, were very tired and really hungry...so we went in....and found that there was also an aubergue at this spot, so we would have a bed for the night.

We ate what was called "the pilgrim's menu" for the day......and it was the first of what would be many great meals.  They all started with a hearty soup....Caldo Galicea...everyplace in the area serves their version of this soup and it is a delicous mix of greens, white beans, potatoes and sometimes some sort of meat.  Next they bring you the main course, usually a grilled fish or meat dish, always served with yummy fried potatoes.  And every meal ended with an almond tart that we came to look forward to almost as much as a bed!!!!

We were joined at dinner by a German woman who was a mother of a 6 and an 8 year old....on the pilgrimage all alone.  She was only trying to do about 10 kilometers a day.....but she was a fairly big girl, so often was our inspiration when things got tough down the road.

After dinner, we went to the aubergue.......where we found out they have no "ropas de camas" or bed clothes....no sheets and more importantly, NO BLANKETS!!!!  Also important, this particular auberque had no heat.  We spent an almost completely sleepless night.  I cuddled with Cait and Mom alternately, trying to warm us all up as much as possible.  Mom was shivering so at one time, that a German man who was sleeping near her, got up to try to find something to cover her with.  We slept in all the clothes we had and covered with our towels. 

We felt unprepared and exhausted after our first day.....but somehow just knew things would get bettter.

Day two - 18 Kilometers.

Our first lesson of Day 2 was to stock up on food when you found it!  The great little spot where we had dinner the evening before was closed, so we set out...tired and hungry.  Since Mom had the "standing erect" issue the day before, we found her a new bigger stick (pine cones attached) and decided despite her objections, we would not let her carry anything other than the small cloth pack any longer.  We tried to distribute things a little better between the two other packs, but Cait's pack was still substantially heavier, probably weighing 35 pounds or so.  We started the day trading off every hour or so, but Cait was taking longer and longer stints with the pack.  This would prove to be a lifesaver for me.

The path was not quite as treacherous as on day one...but it was a fairly steady uphill climb.  This suprised me, as I kind of thought that since we were heading towards the coast, we would be going mostly downhill.  This would not be the first time I was wrong on this journey.

Mid morning, we reached our first decent sized city.....unfortunately to get into the city we had to climb a huge series of steps.  However, our reward at the top of the steps was a supermarket where we bought fruit and chocolate....and a brand new walking stick for mom.  That purchase alone was worth the walk up the steps as it made her journey so much easier.

By the time we finished our shopping, we thought we might grab some lunch since we had skipped breakfast.  This is when we learned our second important lesson of the day......in Spain, places to eat open at noon....but won't serve you food until at least 1.....and then they close at about 2 for siesta.  So you better be fast and timely!  We were so hungry, and a bit tired...so we sat and waited nearly an hour and a half to eat.  Mom read while Cait and I played cards....but this really put a damper on our progress for the day, and we had some catching up to do!

This day's walk was hard, but the scenery we saw, the medieval villages we walked through and the people we met along the way made it all worth it.  And....our reward at the end of the day was an open aubergue with ....BLANKETS!!!!  Though we didn't make it to a hotel, we did have a great night's sleep and Cait washed out our clothes.  We ate our fruit and leftover bread from lunch for our dinner as we sat in our little "shanty town" that Cait made of our hanging clothes. 

This was also our first stop to meet....."the German girls".  They were two very young pilgrims who would keep pace with us throughout the rest of the trip.  We would leapfrog back and forth, passing them and getting passed, along the route on the next 5 days.   While our daily pace was about the same, the girls walked much faster than us but stopped often, thus becoming the battle of the tortoises and the hares.  I can't believe how competitive we became even on this journey! We shared the aubergue that night with them, two girls from Mollorca Islands, a girl from France and one young man, travelling alone and staying quietly to himself. 

Even though there was no food available at the aubergue, we were too tired to care....we slept so much better with our blankets.

Day three - 20 Kilometers


We started the day knowing we had to keep a pretty good pace, since we had 82 kilometers to go and only 4 left to do it in.  Unfortunately the skies clouded up pretty early and by mid day we were getting wet.  Now, when planning for the trip, Cait had reminded us to bring ponchos, as the weather was expected to be iffy.  Well, being thrifty as Mom and I are....we decided that it was a good idea to get the great little 2 packs of rain ponchos that they sell at the dollar store.  We were wrong.  So very wrong.  Not only were these ponchos not big enough to cover us and our packs.....but they were flimsy and didn't cover our arms at all.  Abject failure seems to sum up our poncho purchase.

We tortoises started earlier than the German hares....but several times during the day the lead would change hands.

Today, in addition to the poncho failure, I would manage to leave our water bottle at a stop and then, within fifteen minutes, set the backpack down in a pile of some sort of poop.  Yes, real poop.  Right on the mesh part that rested against your shoulders.  And unfortunately I didn't notice it until just as I was swinging it up to put on the second shoulder strap...way too late to stop the motion.   So....poop all over my jacket and the backpack.  Bad combination.

In addition to getting wet,  we were showing signs of wear and tear.  Cait was carrying the big pack almost exclusively.  While the small pack was lighter, the weight was badly distributed.......but even so MUCH easier to carry than the big one.  Cait was using Mom's stick some, to try to help take some of the load off...but when the trail was treacherous, Mom needed it back, so Cait had to go it alone. 

As the day drew to an end, we were very wet and very tired.  We got to what we thought was an aubergue, but it was closed.  Trudging on.....we found another.....closed as well.  Then it started to rain hard.  No sign of a town or a place to stay, we were short on food, out of water, exhausted and soaked.  Finally we found another aubergue...this time...open!!!  Just before we were getting to the door of the aubergue, the "hares" zipped by us and checked into the place just before us.

Not only was this aubergue open, but a Godsend.  It had a dryer to dry our wet clothes....and while it had no blankets, the woman running it went and found us some, and then, when she found out that we had lost our water bottle, she sent her husband to get water for us.  The showers were hot and the only other two people in the aubergue were our two German girl friends.

We were so happy to be dry and to have water, we didn't even mind much when one of the girls snagged Mom's long underwear top.  Well, Cait and I didn't mind much....after all it wasn't our top!!!  The girls were no longer "the German girls" and now became "the shirt stealers".  We figured it was only an accident, but gave us something to giggle about the rest of the trip.


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